Death of a Salesman
I am an introvert. I always have been, but as I have gotten older and spent most of my career working from home, this is even more the case. If I don't make a concerted effort, I can go days without having a face to face conversation with anyone but my pets. Sometimes, this means that when I have a living, breathing person in front of me I spill my guts like the Exxon Valdez (or a mental patient), revealing way too much about my inner thoughts and overwhelming the poor, unsuspecting subject of my rant. I think I have scared off a date or two. My good friends have come to expect this, and, if we haven't spoken in a while, I think they just expect the deluge. I am working on finding a healthy balance.
I love making yarn. Love, love, love it. I even like designing my labels and wrapping up orders and making receipts. I enjoy the whole process. On the other hand, I do not enjoy selling things, particularly approaching people unsolicited and trying to sell them things. Add to this my nervous rambling, and I just don't think I am very good at selling my yarn in person. I have found that approaching prospective buyers online is much easier, so the last few days I have been writing emails, with detailed photographs and a little bio about myself and what makes my yarn unique. I have sent them out to area yarn shops. I have also approached some well known pattern designers and asked them to have a look at my yarn and share their opinions with me.
Here is the first response that I got from one designer whose patterns I have been particularly addicted to lately:
Now I realize she probably gets a ton of fan mail and emails asking her to try new yarns and products all the time. I am really trying not to take it personally. I just hoped for a little more of a constructive response from someone I have admired for such a long while. Does it mean my yarns are not very impressive? Nothing special? I think it probably just means she has more important things to do, and that is the way I am trying to take it.
ADDENDUM: I contacted a Santa Fe yarn shop a couple days ago and just got a great response. They are definitely interested in carrying MousePants Woolens and would like me to deliver their order at the beginning of July. I got this email about 30 minutes ago, and I am on top of the moon! I guess it's not all that bad after all. The internet makes it a lot easier to approach people despite my tendency toward being an introverted, somewhat shy person and my yarn speaks for itself. Now I am off to do some spinning. Gotta get that order ready by the beginning of July!
Your yarns are wickedly impressive and I think you kinda got shafted...or at least just her standard response. I wouldn't take it personally. I would love to design a pattern specifically for Mousepants Wollens. I'm fascinated with using heavier guage yarns and knitting lace patterns on big needles. Let me know! You are truly talented sistah!
ReplyDeleteClaudia, I would love to collaborate with you! Your shawl patterns are absolutely stunning! Thanks for the kind compliments. Thankfully, I am getting a thicker skin and persevering is paying off :)
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